It was all about putting together a nice sounding starter system on a budget. Got the Parasound receiver and tape deck for $90, CDP for $50, speakers for $200. Look for Erica's name on AudioGon in 10 years!
I think even young people can appreciate quality sound, and we should give them that. I teach music, and when I upgrade their strings or a bow, they are quick to take notice! I was surprised at their acute judgement, and felt bad for giving them less than pro stuff. Enjoyment of Baroque music is supposed to enhance their intellectual develpment as well - I would recommend Mozart - (Mozart effect). One positive thing you can tell your wife, if she isn't into this thing.