I like your setup...my place/system is like a "mini me" version of yours....well...more like "microscopic me"lol. I have the t&g wood cathedral ceilings and bamboo floors. Ultimately I would love a set of 802's powered by more powerful Electrocompaniet gear than I'm currently using. Just out of curiosity...have you tried moving your 802's out a little further into the room? I have found that the further I get my speakers out infront of the t.v., the better the focus gets. Still...I'm very impressed/envious.
happy listening
Ellery